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HANGING AROUND POSITIVE PEOPLE AND ALL THAT STUFF
Did you know that five minutes of negativethinking takes 24 hours to recover from' Just
think about all the people you've been hanging
out with' Do they sap your energy' Do they make
you tired just thinking about them and their
problems'
I know there are some of you are exhausted at the
end of the day just because of who you have come
in contact with. Not only that, we all
experience 100 abrasive incidents a day-that's
3000 a month. It could be anything-red lights,
someone using your car and not replacing the gas,
going to the fridge and what you wanted is gone
because someone else ate it.
It doesn't take much to put you in a "funky" mood
so it's important you put the right kind of
events and people in your life on a continuous
basis.
Make up your mind right now that you'll change
the influences in your life so you can see
through clearer, more positive lenses. I know
you can't live in utopia, and nasty people and
things will continue to walk in your path, but it
really is true that what happens to you doesn't
determine your outlook on life. Your attitude is
determined by how you cope with what happens to
you. And how you're able to cope is partly
controlled by who and what you surround yourself
with.
When you look in the mirror, who do you see' A
lively spunky old broad who kicks butt, or an old
woman who no longer dances or wears purple' More
importantly, do you like the person you see'
SOB's let negative people and events take only
minor time and thought processes from them
because they know the makeup time isn't worth it.
When you surround yourself with folks who are
motivating, enthusiastic and happy, you become
the same way. When you refuse to let negative
events change your life, you can see them in
proper perspective.
You need to stay away from negative elements so
you can get up in the morning with a smile on
your face and happiness in your heart. Make your
entire day a pleasurable one. When you are true
to yourself and what's important to you, you will
accomplish your deepest desires and be your
happiest.
I know you believe life is what happens as you're
making other plans, and perhaps that's true, but
to a large degree you are the only one who
controls that life. You are in charge of what
and who enters your life. We can't always choose
our family, but we can choose our friends and the
events we partake of.
If you don't like them, get rid of them.