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<h3>3 Things That Can Save You When You Don’t Know What To Say</h3>
 
You are dating a beautiful but a shy girl or one 
that is not a talkie. You have already talked 
about your hobbies, your families and your jobs and nothing else come into your mind and she is not really helping you (that’s what you believe). 
 
One of the best ways of having a good, healthy and wholesome chat with your girlfriend is to start with small talk. The small talk will give you a general picture about her likes and dislikes, as well as what she would like to discuss and what she would rather leave alone. Once the small talk gives you a general idea, you 
can go ahead and discuss your common likes and dislikes. 
 
But what is really freaking you are those moment of silence. Uhh... horrible moments. :) The key to avoid or get over these horrible moments are: 
 
1. Compliment her 
 
The fact is most people are shy about meeting new people. I used to be enormously shy. But when you think about it, shyness is merely a fear that 
others won\'t like you, or that you may be 
rejected in some way. It\'s natural for us to 
desire acceptance. So try to make her know that you like her by making a compliment. But find something that you really find attractive about her, about her lifestyle or her personality. She will become more confident and more open to share 
her believes and her shyness won’t be a problem for a fluid conversation. 
 
2. Asking open questions 
 
How you ask questions is very important in 
establishing a basis for an effective 
communication. Effective questions open the door to knowledge and understanding. The art of questioning lies in knowing which questions to 
ask when. 
 
My favorites questions are \"why\" and \"how\" 
questions. You can use these frequently without being annoying. She will feel that you are interested in what she is telling you and will develop her answers. 
 
Therefore, you should think carefully before 
speaking and taking up subjects that might be repugnant to her. 
 
3. Listen, listen, and listen. 
 
Usually when the woman starts talking about her favorite subjects (feelings, family, relationships, friends and her work) many men lose interest or bring the conversation back to themselves. This is one of the biggest mistake men are doing all the time. 
 
They also like to exchange jokes and anecdotes and spend a fair amount of time playing one-up and boasting. Stop doing that!!! 
 
Allow HER to have HER points of view, while you have yours. Men have felt like they have either had to abandon their own beliefs in order to try to get a woman, OR they had to fight with women about what they believe in. Both approaches lead to failure. 
 
She is not there with you just to hear about your hero \"qualities\", but to have a great time! 
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Ovi Dogar 
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